Now, This sounds very bleak but it’s the truth. This isn’t one of those blogs where we romamtize illnesses- illustrating that everyone is an angel.
Suicide is a very selfish thing. it is. and as someone who’s familiar with people who suffer from forms of depression I can say the road out of suicidal tendencies is not easy.
Balancing a relationship on top of that road with the impatient idea of ‘fixing‘ someone, is incorrect
The intense psychological weight of a mental illness is a lot for one person let alone two.Mental illness is not something anyone can ask for or developed or trade up though the sensitivity intensifies & defuses varying on the situation.
Chronic,catatonic come in waves though can be instigated by events
A lost job,death of a family member or ended relationship can be catalysts for very serious episodes
Older men; young girl relationships are very delicate things. Often girls who are attracted to older men as well as being are emotionally sensitive and almost always have mental instabilities which
a lot of girls date younger men because they find solace in the intellect/mentality of that particular man
As an older man you’re organically put in a position of dominance in her life and bestowed much honour.You’re their point of support,strength, protection.So getting treated badly can have unpredictable effects.
No woman should be treated poorly,but the effect of a heart break in a DDLG relationship is x50
Therefore being mistreated as a young person can be emotionally scarring.
Thr title of this article was supposed to shock you,But I wanted to highlight a few Miss once prions about dating with depression. It is
- Do not date someone with the idea of trying to “fix” them because often you’ll end up frustrated at yourself, or worst, at them for being “broken”
- Make sure you’re fully and completely in love with them.Love is unambiguous when you are in it your empathy will naturally meet thier mentality;bond of love & support you both have for eachother will enrich your relationship.
- Please understand what you’re getting into, do not underestimate the level someones illness.people may have very few waves before dating you and for one reason or another an episode could be activated.Do not take it personally, be sensitive and patient.
I’ve dated people who’ve had no idea I was suffering who were very supportive and sweet, and double that when they grew to realise.
Dating with depression can be amazing as long as it’s with a great person.